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Very surprised that the discussion of our date ended up on the Internet (hey, that’s the peril of going out with a blogger, right????), she ended up telling me that drinking wasn’t that important to her and that she would never drink in front of me, which she hasn’t — something that has not gone unnoticed or unappreciated.I’m a single mom with a 3-year-old son, and I won’t date someone who has kids. If that’s not enough to make you think I’m a hypocritical bitch, let me venture even further.My son lives with me 100 percent of the time, seven days a week, 24 hours a day. For the longest time, after having my son and raising him on my own, I thought I’d be destined to settle for someone with a tribe of his own children. That’s often the case, but it sounds like a far cry from a fairy tale ending to me.I’m really not interested in dating someone who has a kid. But here are the reasons anyway: The problem with many relationships is most people don’t outwardly admit this.How many times have you been on the receiving end of a friend or family member bitching and moaning about his or her significant other's child, while simultaneously forcing a happy face when the kid is around?
If one assumes that many people think about kids in their 30s, maybe I’ll get serious about having them in my mid-40s.
I don’t live a typical lifestyle, nor would I ever want to. But at this point, dating someone who has children of his own just doesn’t fit with my life goals. If someone single and kid-free comes into our lives who can add to that, maybe I’ll partner up.