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They love, hurt, have daily challenges and struggles, and strive to be the best they can be.
Sex-positivity — the feminist movement that’s pushing to destigmatize sex — should be great for women.
Women like Samantha Jones from “Sex and the City” have been coded as empowering because of the high number of casual sexual encounters they have.
There seems to be a kind of disrespect of women’s autonomy during casual sexual encounters, which doesn’t make the experience any better.
When I think about my own one-night stands, I realize I can relate: It seems to me that many men copy what they’ve learned from porn with no comprehension of the fact that women aren’t a monolith.
This is a symptom of the larger cultural disease that treats women as if we’re all the same.
When I tell other women I’m taking a break from non-relationship sex, they tell me they understand completely.
They aren’t swearing off casual sex because they want serious relationships or because they can’t handle casual arrangements — which is the prevailing cultural stereotype about women.I think back to all the casual encounters I’ve had since college, in which I gave men blowjobs while they seemed completely uninvested in getting me off.